So you want to share what you know about climate with your friends and family. But you want to avoid an argument, too.

Start with the basics. When talking to someone about climate, agree to give each other the benefit of the doubt.

Listen to understand–rather than respond. Where are they coming from and what do they already know about climate change?

Establish common ground. Maybe you both want cleaner air or healthier ecosystems. Both of those rely on climate action.

You don't have to lecture. Offer up what you know and point them in the right direction to learn more.

Always avoid getting angry or raising your voice. Your posture, tone, and word choice should all help build solidarity.

Emphasize that the solutions are available to us. This can help battle hopelessness.

Discuss the power of personal action and the role each of us can play in protecting our environment.

And reassure them that climate anxiety is real. Discuss coping strategies together and offer support.

But remember: The best lesson you can give friends and family on climate is through your own example–not just a lecture.

With the help of real dialogue and your leadership, you can help inspire more people to create real change on climate.